Just skimmed this thread, but I haven't seen anyone mention the Thrustmaster T16000:
It's great for left-handers (like me) who can't use the default Extreme 3D Pro and gets good reviews. I just need to learn how to use it, but I'll probably stick with my 360 controller since this isn't a flight sim. Feel free to ask me any questions about the physical buttons, stick, or weight as I have it sitting next to me.