Jeez, leave this site for a few hours and it turns into an agony aunt column
Wise Vanu says that to foster healthy relationship, this couple must both roll NC
and VS on different servers so that neither of you suffers from unhealthy build-up of unreleased tension. Over time, unreleased tension can eat away at basis of good relationship.
And Vanu forgives. Vanu is love.
Any NC give you a hard time, send them to us!