How to find, stay with my squad?

[mekabuser]

I know how to auto join a squad, Ive been in them, but how do I actually find them ? Ive been in squads the last few nights and can only occasionally catch a glimpse of them on the horizon. Im not on a mic, but I figured i would be able to hear them .
Secondly , is it in option to respawn on my squad leader ? Ive looked for a squad tut but didnt see anything here.
Loving the game so far, but would love to be part of a squad based action with real concrete goals.
Any help greatly appreciated.